Why Should Delaware Care?
Joe Arminio and Sarah McBride are the candidates that will be running for Delawareโs only seat in the U.S. House in November. Arminio’s misgendering of McBride, a prominent transgender lawmaker, has sparked new Republican Party divisions as it aims to become more competitive in statewide races.
Just days after the primary election, the state Republican Party is in revolt over its two most prominent candidates following oneโs dismissal from a forum after repeatedly misgendering U.S. Rep. Sarah McBride.
During a candidate forum held Thursday by the Siegel Jewish Community Center in Wilmington, U.S. House candidate Joe Arminio twice misgendered the incumbent Democratic congresswoman, who is the first openly transgender member of Congress.
He was subsequently forced to leave the forum by organizers, and Republican U.S. Senate candidate Mr. Mike Katz, who was on stage at the time apologized for Arminioโs conduct, saying he didnโt condone it.
In a statement late that evening, Katz called on Arminio to drop out of his race.
โWe can disagree strongly about policy, politics, and the direction of our country. We can debate those differences vigorously. That is part of our democracy,โ he said. โBut disagreement is not an excuse for disrespect. When someone seeking public office is given an opportunity to correct his conduct, acknowledges his mistake, receives an explicit warning, and then repeats that conduct, it raises serious concerns about the standards we should expect from those who seek to represent us.โ
The state Republican Party, which had hoped that a reformation of leadership, policy platforms and fundraising efforts could resuscitate the partyโs chances in the midterm elections after a decade of failures, will now have to contend with a serious division at the top of the ticket.
Arminio and the party, which endorsed the more moderate Katz overwhelmingly this spring but backed an opponent of Arminioโs, has yet to comment on the episode.
Arminio and GOP Party Chair Gene Truono did not respond to requests for comment Friday from Spotlight Delaware.
What happened at the forum?
In a recorded video livestream, Arminio is heard using the terms โhisโ and โheโ to refer to McBride and was corrected by the audience, who loudly booed.
Arminio responded, asking the crowd to show respect to him as the speaker, but then shortly afterward referred to McBride as a man again, and then thanked the crowd for the correction.
โAfter Arminio finished his speech, moderator Ken Grant stepped up to the microphone and said,โ This is your final warning. If you fail to show respect to anyone else on this stage, youโll be asked to leave.โ
During the answer to Arminio’s next question, he was able to acknowledge his error and said: โItโs not the first error Iโve made in this campaign or at any point in my future life.โ
โBut a few minutes later, as Arminio was discussing private healthcare debt, he pointed at U.S. Sen. Chris Coons and McBride, referring to them as โgentlemen.โ
โGentlemen like the two here on this up here with me on the Democratic Party โฆ,โ he said.
โThe crowd began interrupting and yelling at Arminio.
The moderator can also be heard speaking over Arminio, saying to cut his mic and that he had been warned.
Despite all the boos and commotion from the crowd, McBride intervened to allow Arminio to still have a chance to speak despite the slights.
โListen, I donโt want this gentleman to not be able to have the abilityโฆโ McBride said, before Katz stepped in to repeatedly call for Arminioโs removal.
After being kicked out of the panel, the conversations between the candidates continued, with McBride explaining that she has been focused on serving Delaware in Washington and not on politicians who are engaging in โpetty stupid things, and in petty personal insults.โ
Since joining Congress two years ago, McBride has endured misgendering by her Republican colleagues and a fight over which bathroom she would be allowed to use on Capitol Hill.
But this was not the first time that Arminio, who was an underdog candidate in the primary race and largely made his campaign about economic issues, has insulted McBride.
Less than a week earlier, during a candidate forum on the popular โRich Jensenโ radio show on WDEL, the host had to correct Arminioโs misgendering there too. Jensen told Arminio that the policy of his program is to refer to McBride as โsheโ and to continue doing so.

Recoil against Katz
By calling for his colleagueโs departure from the party ticket, Katz has perhaps earned a modicum of respect from centrist Democrats and independents, but he has also angered many conservatives.
The comment section of his statement on Facebook was flooded by commenters who expressed disappointment in the Senate candidate and said he has lost their vote.
It exposed the new face of the Republican Party to the new level of fractiousness of the modern GOP in Delaware.
John Shulli, the retired U.S. Army Reserve colonel who ran against Katz in the Senate primary this week and had lambasted Katzโs former affiliation with the state Democratic and Independent parties before recently becoming a Republican, jumped on the criticisms, calling his former opponent โthe Benedict Arnold of Republicansโ in a Friday video.
โKatz is a Democrat, and a coward, and a traitor to the Republican Party of Delaware. He should either withdraw from the race or change his affiliation to Democrat,โ he said.
What impact the division over LGBTQ+ issues may have on Katzโs electoral chances remains to be seen, but he already faced a Herculean challenge.
Coons held nearly $4.8 million in campaign cash as of Aug. 26, while Katz had less than $100,000, according to federal campaign finance records.
The senior Democratic senator just captured 78% of the primary election vote in a year when Congressional incumbents are frequently being challenged by progressive challengers. He has never captured less than 55% of the vote in a Senate election and Republicans’ best finish yet against him was 42% of the vote.
Those issues only come atop the fact that Democrats have a roughly 130,000-voter advantage over Republicans as of Sept. 1.
